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EP Vol. 110  
5 Parenting Rules That Don't Work: How to Separate Fact from Fiction
by James Lehman, MSW

Learn the 5 most ineffective parenting techniquesEven before you become a parent, you start forming ideas about how you’ll raise your child. You get advice about it from all sides—your own parents and family, your friends, and books by so-called experts tell you "the rules" of good parenting. But most people soon find out that some of these techniques are simply fads—and many of them don’t work at all. Read on to see what James Lehman thinks are the top five most ineffective parenting concepts out there.

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Contest winners receive James Lehman’s new book
   
Contest winners receive James Lehman’s new book We had so many great submissions for our first contest of 2010, it was hard to choose just ten winners! Thanks to everyone who wrote in with their parenting mistakes and great solutions. Each winning entry will receive James
Lehman's new book, Transform Your Problem Child, and will be featured in our blog. Please click here to see the list of winners.

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Latest Blog Headlines

Parent Blogger EP Contest Winners Announced!
by Elisabeth Wilkins, EP Editor

Parent Blogger Who (and When) Do You Tell about Your Child's Disability?
by Kim Stricker - Parent Blogger!

Parent Blogger Security for Your Child's School--How Do You Feel about It?
by Anita Johnston - Parent Blogger!

One-Minute Transformations

Tell Them to Do it Once
Are you tired of nagging your child to do homework and chores? In this month's OMT,
James explains how to "Tell Them to Do it Once"
Get kids to do things the first time
in his unique, no-nonsense style.
 
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Coming Soon in EP:
"Your Child is Not Your Equal"
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The EP Forums
Where Parents Empower Each Other

What Parents are Talking about Now:
This week a single mom writes in about her struggles with her 8-year-old son:

"I am new to this forum and have been reading but not posted yet. I have a long-ish story (as we all do) but will try to make it short and to the point...my 8-year-old has always been challenging, for lack of a better word. His father and I separated and divorced in 2006...My parenting style is very different from his. I hate to yell, will follow through with consequences and try to be as consistent as possible..."

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Forum Post School Options for a child with a learning disability
Forum Post Defiant 14-year-old son disrupting entire family
Forum Post Lying, manipulative 18-year-old twin boy - acts like he's 2!
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EP Podcast
Dr. Bob Myers: Raising Teens with ADHD

This month’s podcast:  How to use consequences and rewards with your ADHD/ADD teenDr. Bob Myers explains how to use a system of consequences and rewards with ADHD/ADD preteens and teens. For young kids, star charts and reward systems work well, but how do you parent adolescents with ADHD effectively? Dr. Bob tells you how in this month's podcast.

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Learn how to give consequences that work
The Complete Guide to Consequences DVD by James Lehman, MSW will teach you specific consequences to give your child when it matters most.

5 starsIt works!
Review by : Bonnie F
January 21, 2010

"This program worked for me because it showed me what I was doing wrong. There really is a difference between punishing kids vs. giving them consequences so they'll learn. I'm using this with my teen girls and it's working…"

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Is Your Child
Verbally Abusive?
Stop nasty backtalk now
New Video Program from James Lehman Helps Stop Intimidation and Hateful Backtalk
Special price for EP readers
Has your child’s backtalk crossed the line into verbal abuse? Has it gone beyond disrespect and into intimidation—toward you and siblings?

James Lehman demonstrates how to stop verbal abuse in his new video program: Getting Through to Your Child.


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If Your Spouse Won’t Cooperate with Parenting…
Help for parents who disagree
James Lehman’s New Videos Help You Get Your Spouse on Board
Special price for EP readers
If your spouse disagrees with you, undermines you or just won’t cooperate with your parenting efforts, it can actually make your child’s behavior worse. Kids often use parental disagreement to manipulate their parents and get around the rules.

If you don’t see eye-to-eye with your spouse (or your ex) on how to parent your children, James Lehman will help with his new videos: Two Parents, One Plan.


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