The Us Factor™

12 Video Lessons (+ Bonus Video), 282-page Workbook

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It’s normal for couples to drift apart over time, especially when they lack the skills they need to stay connected. Us Factor shows you and your partner how to build on what’s right in your relationship, rediscover excitement and intimacy, and learn simple ways to work through your most challenging problems.


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Product Features: 

  • 12 video lessons
  • Bonus video lesson
  • 282-page workbook

Falling in love is easy. Staying in love takes skills.

No one ever teaches us the skills to be successful in a relationship. No wonder we get scared when we start feeling bored, distant or dissatisfied with our partner. Remember, problems like resentment, distance, boredom and lack of communication are normal. All you need are practical solutions to the most common and difficult relationship problems.

Stop blaming and start connecting:

  • No more feeling like you’re doing something wrong
  • Stop bad habits and blame from taking over
  • Truly connect with one another again
  • Rediscover your attraction for each other

In this program, you’ll learn:

  • The key skills for a good relationship
  • How to become aware of habits in your relationship
  • Ways to work through boredom, trust issues, resentment and constant arguing
  • The secret to ending broken promises and disappointment
  • Ways to trust your partner again
  • New moves to spark attraction
  • How to rekindle love, intimacy and excitement

Joseph Melnick, PhD

Dr. Joseph Melnick has worked as a couples and family therapist for over 25 years. He’s taught worldwide and is co-editor of Gestalt Review, published by the Gestalt International Study Center. Joe is author of numerous articles and books on intimacy, ethics, and organizational development and is the creator of The Us Factor®.