The Total Transformation®

Jump Start, 7 Audio Lessons (+1 Bonus), Parent's Workshop Video, 116 Pages of Interactive Workbook Lessons

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Most parents struggle with bad behavior, whether it’s disrespect, arguing or severe defiance. But with the right skills and support, you don’t have to struggle anymore. The Total Transformation Program takes you step by step through understanding and managing your child’s behavior and shows you exactly what you need to do to develop your child’s problem solving skills—stopping bad behavior for good.


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What is The Total Transformation® Program?
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Will The Total Transformation® work for all children?
My child's behaviors are not as extreme as James Lehman describes. Will this program work for me?
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Using The Total Transformation® Program
My child has a diagnosis (such as ADD/ADHD, ODD). Will it work for him/her?
Is there anyone who shouldn't use the program?
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Defiant Teenager

Juakson Carpenter witnessed a hot temper and defiant behavior from teenage Raschid. “I didn’t have the tools to deal with it so I avoided it,” said Juakson. After hearing an ad for The Total Transformation on the radio, Juakson ordered the program that would completely change her family relationship.

ADHD and School Issues

Jo-Ann and Kath were looking for ways to help their son Brennan, who is diagnosed with ADHD and Slow Processing Disorder. They recognized that Brennan is talented, creative, and a natural leader, but his tendency to challenge authority and test limits was creating serious issues at school and at home. Once the Birch family started using the Total Transformation, real change happened immediately. The child behavior program taught Jo-Ann and Kath ways to hold their son accountable to meeting expectations, regardless of his diagnosis.

Stubborn Child

“My daughter is my world,” says Kevin Cleaver about his young daughter Jessie. “She deserves the best.” But Kevin and his wife were struggling to find the best way of addressing Jessie’s out of control behavior when she didn’t get her way. They tried one thing, and when that didn’t work, they would try something else. The Cleaver family found the Total Transformation Program, a parenting program that helped their family all get on the same page with great results.

Get instant online access to:

  • Jump Start
  • Parent’s Workshop Video
  • 7 Audio Lessons
  • 116 Pages of Interactive Workbook Lessons
  • Bonus Audio Lesson

Online Version

Regain control of your child, your family and your life.

You need help in the moment when you are overwhelmed with defiance and bad behavior. You need tools you can use at home to get your child to solve their own problems without acting out. And you need the fighting, screaming and defiance to stop.

Restore peace and sanity in your home.
  • No more walking on eggshells around your child
  • End frustration and exhaustion from constant arguing
  • Stop pleading and negotiating with your child
  • Feel empowered, not helpless
  • Stop blaming yourself for your child’s behavior
  • No more feeling like a bad parent
  • Replace power struggles with accountability
In this program, you’ll:
  • Get kids to listen, behave and act responsibly at home and at school
  • Learn the 10 words to say when your child talks back
  • Eliminate “acting out” in public
  • Stop the blame game for good
  • Master specific consequences for kids of all age groups
  • Discover exactly what to say and do to stop arguments and get through to your child
  • Understand how to prevent future issues before they start
  • Get your child to cooperate and comply, without raising your voice
  • Learn how to talk so your child will listen and respond appropriately
  • Teach your child problem solving skills
  • Rediscover the joys of being a parent
  • Establish lasting respect between you and your child
1-on-1 Coaching

When you need guidance through a specific situation, have questions about your program or just need someone to listen when you’re overwhelmed, our professional 1-on-1 Coaches are waiting to help. Each is highly experienced with our range of learning programs, and dedicated to personally motivating and supporting you. Simply call or email and get personalized guidance related to your program. Plus, since 1-on-1 Coaching is an optional service, you can elect to use it as long as you need it.

Our professional staff of 1-on-1 Coaches is here to help guide you through your learning program. Many have experienced parenting challenges firsthand, and offer a fresh and knowledgeable perspective.

Coaching is available for the Online Version only and can be added to your order during the checkout process.

James Lehman, MSW

James Lehman, who dedicated his life to behaviorally troubled youth, created The Total Transformation® Program, The Complete Guide to Consequences™, Getting Through To Your Child™, and Two Parents One Plan™, from a place of professional and personal experience. Having had severe behavioral problems himself as a child, he was inspired to focus on behavioral management professionally. Together with his wife, Janet Lehman, he developed an approach to managing children and teens that challenges them to solve their own problems without hiding behind disrespectful, obnoxious or abusive behavior. Empowering Parents now brings this insightful and impactful program directly to homes around the globe.

1-on-1 Coaching

Only Empowering Parents offers professional 1-on-1 Coaching to help guide you through our learning programs, answer your questions and listen when you need to talk.

Simply call or email when you are ready for personal, 1-on-1 support and we’ll be there to help you.

Coaching is available for the Online Version only.

Select 1-on-1 Coaching during the checkout process.